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June 2013

transiences:

I hate it when I feel a thing and I can’t put it into words other people understand.

When I’m up-ache and the color maroon with sky blue and lemon yellow speckles, the sound of a train whistle at three in the morning.

When I’m more fiery than plasma is and I’m blue-yellow-white-lightning and too alive to continue doing anything and nothing.

When I’m simple green and the warmth drinking hot drinks gives you, and I think that if I could touch a friend I might turn them into gold, because that’s what they are to me.

I don’t know how to make people understand. I know it perfectly, but they can’t seem to. 

Does anyone else experience this?

Yes. All the time. It takes me a long time to put it into words. Usually I have to try with poetry first and then it sort of flows from there. Sometimes. 

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HO

LY

SHIT

APPARENTLY PEOPLE WITH AUTISM ARE EASILY DISTRACTED. 

THIS EXPLAINS

SO

FREAKING

MUCH. 

I’m very excited, can you tell :P?

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Mike's happy fun time in Denver - ie Mike is throwing a rare (for him) pity party

Time it took me to miss rioting-feminist: 0 minutes. She left for home before I did. 

Time it took me to miss sparklesparklelittletwink: Approximately 3 hours into the road trip (when Mom and I started to run out of things to talk about). 

Time it took me to get homesick: A little before we got to Laramie. 

Time it took for me to contemplate throwing all of my crap in boxes and leaving that very second, mom getting married or no: approximately 2 hours. 

Fun discoveries!

Not ONE of the five other computers in the house actually plays Neverwinter. Considering that’s what I wanted to do with my summer and time here (other than quilt or pack) and that it’s one of if not the only healthy coping mechanism I have for anxiety, PROBLEM. Thankfully Mom took pity on me (I can’t imagine why, not like it’s not fun to see your twenty year old son stimming and crying in the corner) and hopefully the guy on eBay will pay me back soon and I don’t regret everything forever. 

It’s triggering for Mom to call Dave my stepfather. I don’t like that, my father was a stepfather and what in hell do I need with another father the other was already a dud. 

I already knew that I would be miserable because I know almost NO ONE here (and the people I do know are either hard to track down or abusive or both) but I didn’t realize how fast that was going to drive me crazy. And I mean like…. Crazy. As much fun as it IS to have the only social interaction I get all day be my mother, NO. And then NO AGAIN. And it’s not like I can go out and meet new people because that requires tons and tons of spoons and is also somewhat dangerous. The person who I trusted at Rainbow Alley is also leaving…. And the people there tend to be more teenagers than anything else. Not to mention that my mother a) has a completely different sleep/wake/function schedule and b) has a new boyfriend who she wants to spend lots of time with. 

My mother gets up really early, hits the day running, and away she goes. She starts to lag a little around dinner and a lot after that. 

Where as I tend to sleep late, need approximately four hours if I am being gentle with myself and giving myself time to wake up in order to even be VAGUELY functional, so that by the time I’m functioning it’s almost dinner time. 

Not to mention that my mother doesn’t like to talk about sex, which is one of my favorite topics as many of you know. Not to mention she talks about Dave A LOT. Not to mention that we’ve started to run out of things to talk about because MOST OF WHAT I DID FOR THE PAST SIX MONTHS WE’VE EITHER ALREADY TALKED ABOUT (school) OR IT WAS HAVING SEX. 

At least I got to play Neverwinter today, I would’ve lost my bloody mind otherwise. But really, I am this close to throwing all of my crap in the car and driving back to Washington. 

Jun 18, 2013

iwillincendiotheheartoutofyou:

my blog has become this weird mixture of fandoms, feminism, cats and really fucking stupid jokes that nobody outside this website would find remotely amusing

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“

I also think the role of the assistant has changed since Steven Moffat started overseeing Doctor Who. Rose, Martha and Donna were chosen to travel with the Doctor because they showed in one way or another that they were smart and up to the challenge. Amy and Clara both come to the Doctor first and foremost as mysteries. Amy is the little girl who grew up with a rift in time in her bedroom wall, who doesn’t know why she doesn’t have parents. She spends many episodes being mystically both pregnant and not pregnant but doesn’t know a thing about it and all our information about it comes through the Doctor. What the fuck is that?

Some version of Clara dies on screen twice before she is taken on as the assistant, and it seems like the Doctor takes up with her to find out why. In both cases, the woman is not of interest for her character or her abilities, but for some fundamental mystery in her being. The mystery isn’t even a secret she’s keeping, something over which she has control- it’s something she does not know about, that the Doctor must puzzle out in his own mind. It’s not about her- it’s about what’s wrong with her. When Steven Moffat took over Doctor Who, women became a problem.

”
—

What is wrong with Doctor Who? (via zelda-fistgerald)

I think the concept of women being a problem under Steven Moffat explains a lot about the way women are treated recently in Doctor Who.

Women’s emotions? PROBLEM! Rory can have a heart to hear with the Doctor about his duel memories, but when Amy wants to talk to him about the same problem in a “Night and the Doctor” short, the Doctor runs away shouting, “She’s having an EMOTION!”

Women’s sexuality? PROBLEM! That’s why River Song, the most sexually assertive character in Moffat’s era, is eventually made out to be a complete Femme Fatale.

Women’s concerns about their safety? PROBLEM! So when Clara is finally informed about the fact the Doctor has seen her die multiple times, that knowledge has to be removed from her mind so that they don’t spend the rest of the season discussing the problem on equal footing.

(via whovianfeminism)
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basiliskfangsclatterinthetardis:

brella:

tragic backstories explain bad deeds but they do not excuse them

  • tragic backstories explain bad deeds but they do not excuse them

SNAPE
SNAPE
SEVERUS SNAPE

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#transgender #queer #video games
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PSA: Intersectionality is the default, not the exception.

eshusplayground:

It’s never just gender.

It’s never just race.

It’s never just sexuality.

It’s never just class.

It’s never just disability.

It’s never just one thing.

All that shit is always interacting at the same time.

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eschergirls:

soozarts:

karenhealey:

bisexual candycorn: thoughts on skintones

princessneeshydoomcuddles:

mulattafury:

people ask me a lot about drawing poc, more specifically “how” to do it. my kneejerk reaction is to get frustrated by it, because the answer is “just like you’d draw anything else.” it’s like the main excuse artists and writers use to not include poc in their art and in their worlds — they “don’t know how,” implying that we somehow operate by a separate set of rules, that while white characters don’t require a special set of considerations to be varied and textured and interesting, non-white characters are just an elusive series of step-by-step instructions that most creators just can’t be assed to learn or to include

i still feel that way

but

i guess i can understand that most instructive media focuses specifically on white aesthetics, proportions, skintones, and features, so there really is a need for more instructive material that is more inclusive

i can dig it

that said, there is a lot that i don’t know and am not good at and i don’t really feel comfortable trying to instruct other artists, but i’m fine with taking you through my thought processes a little

SO here’s some stuff about skintones. it’s not perfect, and there will never be a better teacher than the world around you for showing you what things look like and how to express them

first off, if you’ve ever seen me stream you know i don’t usually block in my shading with hard lines like this. i like to paint and sample colors as i go, but i’m trying to communicate my ideas about color a little better

but i’ve always used the same basic process for coloring skintones, any skintones, forever and always:

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this is going to change up a little bit with directional lighting, colored lighting, environmental lighting, shit like that, but this is your basic procedure. the biggest mistake i think artists make is using skintone+black for shadows and skintone + white for highlights, and that results in pretty dull looking skintones

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in the former image, i only varied the value of the main skin color, but in the latter i also varied the hue and saturation. doing so gives you more of an opportunity to add warmth and depth to your colors, as well as bring in environmental colors if you need to

you want to sample around the palette, use reds and purples and oranges, don’t just stay within the range of your base tone!

this applies for all colors, not just skin, but especially skin! you want skin to look alive, not plastic and dull

these same rules apply for most skintones

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though it’s always going to be incredibly helpful to just look at references of the skintone you’re trying to draw, for little details like (for example), very dark skin, because there is a more extreme light/dark variation, will often look much more reflective than very light skin under the same lighting conditions

like so

because of this, you’ll want to work on using light more than shadow to describe form on dark skin

again, this is true of all colors, but especially skin, because you don’t want skin to look flat and lifeless!

the same rules can apply to fantasy skin tones. start with a base tone, then use warm, saturated colors to add light and shadow. sampling around the palette becomes really important for fantasy skintones if you are trying to make them look realistic/believable

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this is especially true if, for whatever reason, you wanted to make a character with grey skin that looks alive and believable

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OKAY THAT’S THE END OF OUR SHOW

LOOK AT THIS GOOD ASS RESOURCE MOTHERFUCKERS

Another helpful note is that darker skin tends to be shinier, which is especially easy to see on the super-dark people in the pics above. My rule of thumb is to use larger swaths of highlights on light skin, and more focused, smaller ones on darker skin.

(Though this is no more a hard-and-fast rule than anything else in art, but it’s a decent shortcut.)

Sharing another drawing tutorial for any interested. :)

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gorrestfump:

if u cant handle me at my worst then i completely understand bc i cant either

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#domestic violence #abuse #Patrick Stewart
“Being young and sick is sorta like being elderly, except we lack the reflection on all the great times and great things we did long ago. Instead, we watch our peers make the memories and strides they’ll look back on fondly, bitterly observing and praying for our chance. Our time.” —(via theproudzebra)
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itseasytoremember:

ironpatriotisstupid:

tickingtimelord:

squirtle-stahp:

ryanroasts:

HELLO BOYS I HAVE A QUESTION CAN YOU FEEL OUR BOOBS WHEN WE DO THE HUG

WE CAN FEEL YOUR BOOBS WHEN YOU WE DO THE HUG SORRY

WHEN I READ “HELLO BOYS” I READ IT IN CROWLEY’S VOICE AND GOT CONFUSED

ANOTHER QUESTION DOES IT FEEL WEIRD? YOU KNOW THE WHOLE BOOB THING

IT FEELS GOOD AGAIN SORRY

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hypno-angex:

suklaaaa:

bunnyinafez:

iwantfitbody:

madamedepompador:

winchesterwolves:

moniker-padacklyte:

zillystring:

wasereborworthit:

mellowminty:

pizzaforpresident:

petition to rename the usa ‘south canada’

what about alaska

are we then normal canada

canada a bit to the left

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What about South America? Is that just America? Or South South Canada?

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i cried my ass of laughing

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WARM CANADA

i caN’T BREATHE OH MY GOD

I’m not even from Canada but I approve this change of names

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Listen Elizabeth Gillies and Victoria Justice

bukwrm:

gymleader:

meulinleijon:

lebanesepoppyseed:

brogigayo:

didyoublush:

freak-thefreak-out:

Take a Hint- Victoria Justice & Elizabeth Gillies

# legit crying about this song because of feminism 

# the idea expressed that you want to be polite but that doesn’t work so you don’t have to be! 

# you can be angry and rude if someone is being an asshole 

# it’s not your fault it’s their fault 

# take your hands off my hips before i punch you in the lips 

# b e a u t i f u l 

 YOU ASKED ME WHAT MY SIGN IS AND I TOLD YOU IT WAS STOP

So let’s take a moment to talk about how fucking badass this fucking song is.

“STOP YOUR STARING AT MY *HEY*”

WOW THIS IS GREAT ALL FAITH RESTORED INTO NICKELODEON THANK YOU OMG

i really like this

Heard this song FOREVER ago and love it so much

Jun 17, 201380,123 notes
You know what sucks, as a spoonie?

missingagloe:

agirlcalledcaptain:

glenismic:

Complicated shoes.

I don’t want to waste even half a spoon on my shoes. I like slipping on shoes, and maybe tying them or zipping them up. But not untying half the shoe and then tying it again, or doing up multiple buckles. Too much work for a spoonie.

I pretty much only wear slip ons now. One of my biggest spoonie pet peeves is my inability to wear high heels or complicated shoes.

Between my strange shoe size, damaged ankles, egg sized cyst on my right foot, and Hypermobile ligaments which cause stretching and cramping in both arches, my shoe options are getting smaller and smaller. It’s a struggle being femme and sick.

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go donate and/or support this please → inabind.transactiveonline.org

shrewdimentary:

they give free binders to minors in need, spread the word

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theywillliveagaininfreedom:

hamburgay:

“beauty sleep” is such bullshit I sleep 12 hours a day and I still look like a trashcan

but a very cute trashcan

make all the other trashcan go BANGBANGCRASH

OMFG

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#ROLLING
“I’m going to make a store called “Build-a-Bra” where girls can go and make bras that are for them if they have different shaped boobs. And really big boobs. And really small boobs. And bras for boys that they can stuff if they want them. And really any kind of boobs. And you’ll choose the size of each cup and then you can choose the color and pattern and shape. And it’ll be really cheap. But lace and diamonds will cost a little extra” —

my 12 year old “niece” Lila on her business idea.

I love that little girl.

(via marrymejasonsegel)

Best idea.

(via shakethecobwebs)

I wanna go 

(via godricsgirl)

LACE AND DIAMONDS WILL COST A LITTLE EXTRA!

(via mojoflower)

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“

I want to stress this again: In many, many parts of the country right now, if you want to go to see a movie in the theater and see a current movie about a woman — any story about any woman that isn’t a documentary or a cartoon — you can’t. You cannot. There are not any. You cannot take yourself to one, take your friend to one, take your daughter to one.

There are not any.

By far your best shot, numbers-wise, at finding one that’s at least even-handedly featuring a man and a woman is Before Midnight (on 891 screens) so I hope you like it. Because it’s pretty much that or a solid, impenetrable wall of movies about dudes.

Dudes in capes, dudes in cars, dudes in space, dudes drinking, dudes smoking, dudes doing magic tricks, dudes being funny, dudes being dramatic, dudes flying through the air, dudes blowing up, dudes getting killed, dudes saving and kissing women and children, and dudes glowering at each other.

Somebody asked me this morning what “the women” are going to do about this. I don’t know. I honestly am at the point where I have no idea what to do about it. Stop going to the movies? Boycott everything?

They put up Bridesmaids, we went. They put up Pitch Perfect, we went. They put up The Devil Wears Prada, which was in two-thousand-meryl-streeping-oh-six, and we went (and by “we,” I do not just mean women; I mean we, the humans), and all of it has led right here, right to this place. Right to the land of zippedy-doo-dah. You can apparently make an endless collection of high-priced action flops and everybody says “win some, lose some” and nobody decides that They Are Poison, but it feels like every “surprise success” about women is an anomaly and every failure is an abject lesson about how we really ought to just leave it all to The Rock.

”
—

At The Movies, The Women Are Gone : Monkey See : NPR

The whole article is fantastic, as is pretty much everything Linda Holmes writes.

(via kdhart)

*cough* 

The Hunger Games

*cough*

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